How to zap the fun right out of personal style

I’ve always felt drawn to several different styles at the same time — in music, interior design, and especially in fashion.

These days, my style leans pretty minimalist. But sometimes I crave something more romantic. Something that makes me feel like I’m twirling in a field, singing Do-Re-Mi with Maria and the von Trapp children.

Over the years, though, I’ve felt pressure to fit my entire style under one label — as if I need to pick one and forgo the rest.

It’s no wonder why. Personal style is often presented as an either/or. Are you sporty or romantic? Colorful or neutral? Minimal or maximal?

But to me, this either/or mindset zaps the fun right out of something that’s meant to be playful and open-ended.

So even though minimalism plays a big role in my aesthetic, romance gets to shine too. I try to keep either/or thinking out of it. Instead, I pick a few different styles I love, pull elements from each, and blend them into something uniquely mine.

Take this beautiful black dress for example — the dainty trim and ruffled hem are decidedly romantic, but the color and simple lines make the dress feel understated and minimal. It’s both/and — and it feels like me.

Is there a part of your style you’ve brushed aside because it didn’t “fit the aesthetic”? How could you let it shine a little today? 

P.S. Here’s an even simpler version of this dress — 100% linen and under $80. Quince for the win.

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Reformation Rowen Dress (wearing 2) | Similar under $80: Quince 100% linen midi dress

Veja White Volley Sneakers | Cute with black accents | Cute with blue or green accents too

First Light Books Tote | Similar: New York Tote

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